Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Wednesday, October 23, 2013
5 Things about You! - Daniel
1) You are officially a middle schooler - 6th grade. You are at a new school and are very excited about that
2) You are enjoying Jurassic Park, Dragon vale, and Mine Craft on the Kindle and iPod Touch.
3) You are a very happy boy with a great smile
4) You do get very discouraged when things do not go your way. Particularly with school and homework. You don't enjoy homework time when we review your work. But you are slowly seeing why we do this work with you every night.
5) You are kind to your brother and sister.
Tuesday, October 22, 2013
5 things about you --- Patrick
1) you do not like your picture taken
2) you enjoy playing soccer. This year your team finally won a game! 3-0 and you scored all three goals. I am proud that you don't give up out there when it would be easy to
3) you are a great helper in the household. If we ask you to help out you do without arguing. You may complain but you do not argue
4) you like to go to Target & Cost Co with me
5) you really are into playing video games right now. I don't really get most of them or why you play but you try to explain them to me
Wednesday, October 16, 2013
Last two years.... where have I been
It has been nearly 2 years since I last posted.... we have been through a lot in that time...
As I write those bullets - it does not seem like a lot but it certainly took its toll on all of us. All these are stressors and it is what you do with that stress that determines if you make it through or if you just stop in the middle of the tunnel and wait for life to run you over.
- My husband lost his job,
- found a new one,
- we moved,
- changed schools, and adjust to all of this.
As I write those bullets - it does not seem like a lot but it certainly took its toll on all of us. All these are stressors and it is what you do with that stress that determines if you make it through or if you just stop in the middle of the tunnel and wait for life to run you over.
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
Life....
Sometimes life seems to beat you down. Sometimes you LET life beat you down. This is what happened to me over the past week. I let things just beat me down that should not have... I let them envelope my life so much that it caused me to get sick.
Last week I mentioned I was carrying hatred in my heart and this manifested into a migraine that lasted nearly 3 days. I do get migraines but they almost always get better with my medication. This one did not. I realized that I had to let my anger go - so I prayed for myself. I normally do not pray for myself - I find it odd and like I am begging/bartering with God, Mary, Jesus, Saint (insert a name) and I do not like that feeling. I think that is why I have a hard time with prayer.
But on Friday morning - after spending Thursday in bed and Wednesday in pain - I decided to suck it up and pray. Guess what it helped. It helped me let go of some (not all) of my anger towards this person. It shifted the anger to sadness. Once some of this anger left me so did my migraine - it was a mild headache after that and I can live with that.
Last week I mentioned I was carrying hatred in my heart and this manifested into a migraine that lasted nearly 3 days. I do get migraines but they almost always get better with my medication. This one did not. I realized that I had to let my anger go - so I prayed for myself. I normally do not pray for myself - I find it odd and like I am begging/bartering with God, Mary, Jesus, Saint (insert a name) and I do not like that feeling. I think that is why I have a hard time with prayer.
But on Friday morning - after spending Thursday in bed and Wednesday in pain - I decided to suck it up and pray. Guess what it helped. It helped me let go of some (not all) of my anger towards this person. It shifted the anger to sadness. Once some of this anger left me so did my migraine - it was a mild headache after that and I can live with that.
Monday, April 11, 2011
Lazy Days and Sunshine
This weekend was to be a lazy weekend for the family. We have a birthday packed weekend next week, then Easter, then my sister in from Scotland, then Mother's Day and finally my In-Laws wedding anniversary. So we will be running - running - running for the next month. So I decided that it would be a lazy nothing planned weekend.
Friday - my brother's family stopped by on their way home from Athens county. They just finished their spring break trip. My kids were so excited to see COUSINS!!!!! as Miss C shouted. We visited and went out for pizza
Saturday - I did not do much but laundry, hang out, make dinner, & watch TV (Ghost Whisperer marathon). Hubby worked on the fridge - trying to fix the ice maker. Kids played on the Wii, outside, and watched some TV.
Sunday - We hung around the house. Went to Mass at 11 instead of our normal 8. That in itself throws the entire day off. Kids played on the Wii and outside. I was not feeling well so I stayed indoors and hung out with Miss C. Hubby went to help a co-worker of mine with her Finance class. We had dinner and all went outside to check out the new rail-to-trail path in Marion county.
It turned out to be a great weekend! I hope this week goes smoothly. P turns 10 on Saturday!!! we have a friends party planned for Friday and family on Saturday.
Friday - my brother's family stopped by on their way home from Athens county. They just finished their spring break trip. My kids were so excited to see COUSINS!!!!! as Miss C shouted. We visited and went out for pizza
Saturday - I did not do much but laundry, hang out, make dinner, & watch TV (Ghost Whisperer marathon). Hubby worked on the fridge - trying to fix the ice maker. Kids played on the Wii, outside, and watched some TV.
Sunday - We hung around the house. Went to Mass at 11 instead of our normal 8. That in itself throws the entire day off. Kids played on the Wii and outside. I was not feeling well so I stayed indoors and hung out with Miss C. Hubby went to help a co-worker of mine with her Finance class. We had dinner and all went outside to check out the new rail-to-trail path in Marion county.
It turned out to be a great weekend! I hope this week goes smoothly. P turns 10 on Saturday!!! we have a friends party planned for Friday and family on Saturday.
Monday, April 4, 2011
What a weekend!?!
Not to sure if it was a good or bad weekend. All I know is that it was one of the longest weekends this year and we stayed near our home all weekend. No driving to Cleveland, Lorain or Port Clinton.
I think the reason the weekend seemed to go by so slowly or last so long was that things did not go as expected the entire time. Everything was just off a little.
This all started on Friday. I was all excited - going to get my hair cut and highlighted. Normally I drive to Cleveland for this (going to the same person for nearly 9 years on and off) activity. I decided that i did not want to drive the 2 plus hours to accomplish this task. So I decided to go to Charles Penzone in Columbus. I have been there several times for cuts and once for color. You never seem to get the same person even when I try (they leave). So I had someone new and every time I told her I wanted her to do X she would tell me that I was wrong. So I just gave up!!! The color is good but I wanted it lighter. The cut on the other hand not so good. My bangs look as if I cut them myself (very choppy) and the style was not what I had in mind (it is a little bob). I am living with it for a few days to see if it grows on me. I am still going to email them and complain since I was told what I wanted was not what I really wanted.
By the time I hit Target for some household supplies (LOVE LOVE LOVE Target) it was time to head home to pick the kids up at school. Pick up the kids and P breaks down because he got a Red Card. I can't remember when the last time he turned his card was. He told me what happened - he was in line and people were talking and it was guilt by association (that is how his teacher works) and this was the Yellow Card. Then in computer class he was trying to get to a math website and was having trouble with the address. He was very frustrated and when the teacher asked him why he wasn't on the site - he answered with a tone that was considered disrespectful. I believe him when he says it was due to frustration but I told him people only hear what he says not the why he sounds that way. Another students mom called to tell me about what happened because she was shocked that he got into trouble and related what her son told her. It backed up P's story.
On a tangential note - P is having some 'anger-management' issues at home with his siblings. He gets very frustrated by them and lashes out with hitting - chocking - and kicking. This is a new thing. He never did this in the past. I am trying to figure out what is going on with him but he does not want to talk about it.
The rest of Friday seemed to follow right along. We did homemade pizza's and the dough stuck to the pan. We tried to get everyone in bed early and it just did not work - too much fun needed to be had.
Saturday
Well that day had lots of promise. We had a whole lot planned to do and had it spread out so we knew it could be done but did not take in account moods! and crowds!
Miss C had a skating date with a girlfriend - they ended up going to lunch at McDonalds afterward. Once C got home we headed down to Polaris (2nd time in two days down there) to do some pampering, movie watching and shopping. The men folks went to see Diary of a Wimpy Kid: Rodrick Rules. The boys LOVED it and the hubby not so much (no surprise to anyone - he went in disliking it). The USCCB rated it A-1 so we said OK. C and I headed to "Sweet & Sassy" a salon geared for little girls to get her nails done. She liked it - I was OK with it. She wants to go back with her cousin this summer for nails, toes, and up-do. We will see.
She and I walked the mall while we were waiting for boys to be done with their movie. Once we picked up the men we headed to dinner. Everyone but C ate their dinner without incident but she said her belly was full after one bite. PLEASE!!!! she is a big loss leader when we go out for dinner but immediately afterwards she is ready for dessert. After dinner we went shoe shopping - everyone needed new tennis shoes. Only the kids ended up getting shoes because it was so exhausting. Miss C melted down at the shoe store over the style, fit, you name it she cried. I finally handed her over to dad. Once she exhausted dad - she and I just sat and I let her cry it out at the store. After the tears she was ready to go again. Hubby & I did not get our shoes. I will have to send Hubby out he is in desperate need for running shoes.
We then headed to Target to make returns and start P's birthday wish list. He is turning 10 on April 16. Let me tell you his list is tiny. People are not going to be happy. But what can I do - nothing. Hopefully people will not mind giving gift cards.
We finally returned home after 6 hours out and about! Hubby and I watched "Morning Glory" after kids crashed. We do not recommend it but all the reviews we have read say watch it. What can you do??? which seems to be my theme this weekend.
I think the reason the weekend seemed to go by so slowly or last so long was that things did not go as expected the entire time. Everything was just off a little.
This all started on Friday. I was all excited - going to get my hair cut and highlighted. Normally I drive to Cleveland for this (going to the same person for nearly 9 years on and off) activity. I decided that i did not want to drive the 2 plus hours to accomplish this task. So I decided to go to Charles Penzone in Columbus. I have been there several times for cuts and once for color. You never seem to get the same person even when I try (they leave). So I had someone new and every time I told her I wanted her to do X she would tell me that I was wrong. So I just gave up!!! The color is good but I wanted it lighter. The cut on the other hand not so good. My bangs look as if I cut them myself (very choppy) and the style was not what I had in mind (it is a little bob). I am living with it for a few days to see if it grows on me. I am still going to email them and complain since I was told what I wanted was not what I really wanted.
By the time I hit Target for some household supplies (LOVE LOVE LOVE Target) it was time to head home to pick the kids up at school. Pick up the kids and P breaks down because he got a Red Card. I can't remember when the last time he turned his card was. He told me what happened - he was in line and people were talking and it was guilt by association (that is how his teacher works) and this was the Yellow Card. Then in computer class he was trying to get to a math website and was having trouble with the address. He was very frustrated and when the teacher asked him why he wasn't on the site - he answered with a tone that was considered disrespectful. I believe him when he says it was due to frustration but I told him people only hear what he says not the why he sounds that way. Another students mom called to tell me about what happened because she was shocked that he got into trouble and related what her son told her. It backed up P's story.
On a tangential note - P is having some 'anger-management' issues at home with his siblings. He gets very frustrated by them and lashes out with hitting - chocking - and kicking. This is a new thing. He never did this in the past. I am trying to figure out what is going on with him but he does not want to talk about it.
The rest of Friday seemed to follow right along. We did homemade pizza's and the dough stuck to the pan. We tried to get everyone in bed early and it just did not work - too much fun needed to be had.
Saturday
Well that day had lots of promise. We had a whole lot planned to do and had it spread out so we knew it could be done but did not take in account moods! and crowds!
Miss C had a skating date with a girlfriend - they ended up going to lunch at McDonalds afterward. Once C got home we headed down to Polaris (2nd time in two days down there) to do some pampering, movie watching and shopping. The men folks went to see Diary of a Wimpy Kid: Rodrick Rules. The boys LOVED it and the hubby not so much (no surprise to anyone - he went in disliking it). The USCCB rated it A-1 so we said OK. C and I headed to "Sweet & Sassy" a salon geared for little girls to get her nails done. She liked it - I was OK with it. She wants to go back with her cousin this summer for nails, toes, and up-do. We will see.
She and I walked the mall while we were waiting for boys to be done with their movie. Once we picked up the men we headed to dinner. Everyone but C ate their dinner without incident but she said her belly was full after one bite. PLEASE!!!! she is a big loss leader when we go out for dinner but immediately afterwards she is ready for dessert. After dinner we went shoe shopping - everyone needed new tennis shoes. Only the kids ended up getting shoes because it was so exhausting. Miss C melted down at the shoe store over the style, fit, you name it she cried. I finally handed her over to dad. Once she exhausted dad - she and I just sat and I let her cry it out at the store. After the tears she was ready to go again. Hubby & I did not get our shoes. I will have to send Hubby out he is in desperate need for running shoes.
We then headed to Target to make returns and start P's birthday wish list. He is turning 10 on April 16. Let me tell you his list is tiny. People are not going to be happy. But what can I do - nothing. Hopefully people will not mind giving gift cards.
We finally returned home after 6 hours out and about! Hubby and I watched "Morning Glory" after kids crashed. We do not recommend it but all the reviews we have read say watch it. What can you do??? which seems to be my theme this weekend.
Tuesday, December 7, 2010
Saint Nick's Day
Well we forgot Saint Nicolas Day on Sunday going into Monday. Luckily the kids school celebrated it and they asked if we could set out shoes on Monday night. I said sure! They put their boots out on the front porch at bedtime. Hubby decided that they needed to be brought in - it was supposed to snow and Miss C wears her boots to school. When they woke the boots were under the tree with candy in each boot. They were very happy! I think they even ate some candy with breakfast!
Monday, December 6, 2010
Completed First Week of Advent
First week of Advent was a success at our home. Every night we lit the Advent candles and recited the prayer. We have determined that two of our children are stuck using the wrong hand when making the sign of the cross. We have to remind them each time and re-do this act. How did this happen? are they doing it just to bug us?
On Friday, C and I put up the tree. She is definitely more a hindrance than a help sometimes. She had a blast anyway so how can you say no to her. We did not decorate since the men folks were at basketball practice until 8 and then it was time for bed for the kids.
We decorated the tree Saturday afternoon and it went well. The kids hung all the ornaments (except my Thomas Kinkade houses) on the tree. Once they headed upstairs to their rooms to set up their trees I rearranged to avoid naked spots. This year we have colored lights on the tree. I really dislike colored lights on trees and I tried to keep my mouth quiet because the kids really like the colorful lights. Once they went to bed I told DH that we need to buy white lights for next year. If we by a box or two now and then at the end of the month we will have enough for our tree next year.
The we had family movie night on Saturday and watched "The Last Airbender" I really liked the movie, hubby fell asleep, the boys were split and the girl could care less it wasn't "Barbie a Fashion Fairy Tale".
On Sunday, the kids had bowling and we went shopping for the Christmas wish tree at Church. P also got new dress shoes, and some church clothes. We then had a nice dinner and lit the 2nd candle.
On Friday, C and I put up the tree. She is definitely more a hindrance than a help sometimes. She had a blast anyway so how can you say no to her. We did not decorate since the men folks were at basketball practice until 8 and then it was time for bed for the kids.
We decorated the tree Saturday afternoon and it went well. The kids hung all the ornaments (except my Thomas Kinkade houses) on the tree. Once they headed upstairs to their rooms to set up their trees I rearranged to avoid naked spots. This year we have colored lights on the tree. I really dislike colored lights on trees and I tried to keep my mouth quiet because the kids really like the colorful lights. Once they went to bed I told DH that we need to buy white lights for next year. If we by a box or two now and then at the end of the month we will have enough for our tree next year.
The we had family movie night on Saturday and watched "The Last Airbender" I really liked the movie, hubby fell asleep, the boys were split and the girl could care less it wasn't "Barbie a Fashion Fairy Tale".
On Sunday, the kids had bowling and we went shopping for the Christmas wish tree at Church. P also got new dress shoes, and some church clothes. We then had a nice dinner and lit the 2nd candle.
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
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