Preparing for the New Year

The next couple of days I am going to work on what was the good/bad/ugly from 2010, what I hope to accomplish in 2011, and what the family has accomplished.

In the past on the 31st at dinner we talk about the fun things we did as a family.  The kids really like this tradition. 

Christmas Recap

What a whirlwind of 3 days we just had....

December 23rd - we got ourselves ready for our family Christmas.  Santa visits our home the night of December 23 into the 24th.  Reason for this is that we do not wake up in our own home on Christmas morning.  When we moved to Marion the kids (aged 3 & 2 - the newborn did not care) were worried that Santa would not visit them since they were not at their own home.  So Tony & I decided that we would 'talk' to him and request a visit while he is out on the other side of the world (it was December 24 somewhere) and make a special visit to our kids.  Six years later he still visits us and it is one of the most wonderful thing about our Christmas.

December 24 - we drove up to Cleveland to visit my parents and my Dad's family.  We had a lovely surprise when we pulled in the drive and right behind us was my brother, his wife & kids.  My kids were so excited to see their cousins - another blessing of the season - having cousins.   There were a few hiccups on Christmas Eve.  First one was that my Aunt & Uncle did not come up to Cleveland.  Normally we have dinner with them and spend the evening hanging out sometimes just talking, sometimes playing game.  Second - we did our best to try to go to Mass.  Being the only regularly practicing Catholics in our family (most are C & Er's as my sweet hubby calls them) we usually do not get to Mass on Christmas.  Well since my Aunt & Uncle were not going to be in town we figured we would go to Mass and then to dinner.  We arrived at the church and it was packed to the rafters (full of C & Er's) so we made the decision to just have dinner and headed back to my parents house.  We ended up not having dinner (reason is that since my Aunt & Uncle were not going to be there my Mom decided not to make a dinner - just snack on leftovers from lunch).  So Tony & I decided to go and see the 'new' Harry Potter movie while the kids stayed with my parents.   The movie was good - followed the book fairly closely.  Only bad thing was we sat near smokers and they stunk.

December 25 - we woke up a bit late on Christmas morning.  Kids opened up gifts from my parents.  We then headed out to my Grandmother's house.  Grandma is 88 years old and this is the first year she did not do all the cooking.  My mom did the cooking and it went well.    Kids were able to play with their cousins here also - so they were happy.  After the visit with my Grandma we headed to Tony's family Christmas gathering at his brother's house. 

December 26 - headed home!!!  The kids were able to play with their new booty!  Glad the gatherings are done and looking forward to the new year ahead.

just lost it...

Do you have someone that can make you lose it... no matter what it going on that person pushes that specific button.  Today my sweet little boy was putting away his clothes -- but I wanted him to stop and jump in the shower before we ran out of hot water.  But he was so focused on putting his clothes away that he did not care.  I just lost it and lit in to him about putting the clothes away!  He just looked at me as if saying hey mom!  isn't that what you wanted me to do.

After his shower I told him I was glad that he put his clothes away and I was sorry for yelling about that.

Love you Bubba!

Monday - Monday can get me down

Some days I really dislike Monday's and today is one of them.  I do have an exciting weekend to update everyone on but do not have the pictures/time/or desire to do this.

Today started with a 2 hour delay for the kids.  I seem to always fall behind on 2 hour delay days. 

Then my work situation is what it is..... I have the means to get out I just need to get on that and figure out the how to start.  I believe once I start down the path - it will be successful.  I just need to find it in me! 

Small Successes - December 9

It’s important for moms to recognize that all the small successes in our days can add up to one big triumph.

1.  Our tree is up and decorated

2.  Our Christmas cards are started (made my own this year) - now I just need to order the pictures for the inside.

3.   Created a menu for the week and have only not followed it once on Tuesday.  On that day we had my friends two boys and I did not have enough for 7 so we ordered pizza.

Saint Nick's Day

Well we forgot Saint Nicolas Day on Sunday going into Monday.  Luckily the kids school celebrated it and they asked if we could set out shoes on Monday night.  I said sure!  They put their boots out on the front porch at bedtime.  Hubby decided that they needed to be brought in - it was supposed to snow and Miss C wears her boots to school.  When they woke the boots were under the tree with candy in each boot. They were very happy!  I think they even ate some candy with breakfast!

Completed First Week of Advent

First week of Advent was a success at our home.  Every night we lit the Advent candles and recited the prayer.  We have determined that two of our children are stuck using the wrong hand when making the sign of the cross.  We have to remind them each time and re-do this act.  How did this happen? are they doing it just to bug us? 

On Friday, C and I put up the tree.  She is definitely more a hindrance than a help sometimes.  She had a blast anyway so how can you say no to her.  We did not decorate since the men folks were at basketball practice until 8 and then it was time for bed for the kids.

We decorated the tree Saturday afternoon and it went well.  The kids hung all the ornaments (except my Thomas Kinkade houses) on the tree.  Once they headed upstairs to their rooms to set up their trees I rearranged to avoid naked spots.  This year we have colored lights on the tree.  I really dislike colored lights on trees and I tried to keep my mouth quiet because the kids really like the colorful lights.  Once they went to bed I told DH that we need to buy white lights for next year.  If we by a box or two now and then at the end of the month we will have enough for our tree next year. 

The we had family movie night on Saturday and watched "The Last Airbender"  I really liked the movie, hubby fell asleep, the boys were split and the girl could care less it wasn't "Barbie a Fashion Fairy Tale".

On Sunday, the kids had bowling and we went shopping for the Christmas wish tree at Church.  P also got new dress shoes, and some church clothes.  We then had a nice dinner and lit the 2nd candle.

Small Successes - December 2

It’s important for moms to recognize that all the small successes in our days can add up to one big triumph.

1) Successful Thanksgiving dinner for 15 at my home.  I did the turkey & potato side dishes while the rest of the family filled in the meal

2) Christmas lights are up on the house - thank you Hubby!

3)  We have successfully lit the Advent wreath at dinner each night.  We have not all eaten dinner together once this Advent but the little groups have lit the candle.

What are your successes???

Goodbye November - Welcome December

My kids were very excited that today was the first day of December.  My daughter told me that it was almost winter - the little snow that was falling helped that out.  They are so excited about winter coming. 

This year we are continuing lighting the Advent wreath every night.  Thank you to Holy Heroes for the nightly prayer for lighting the candle.  My kids aren't to happy about it but we are trying to make this prayer at dinner a new habit.  It wasn't something my family or my husbands family did at dinner.  We haven't been consistent about it during non-advent or lent time but I hope that we will after these 26 days.

Thanksgiving wrap up

Thanksgiving was a HUGE success if I have to say so myself. :)  We hosted the event this year.  That meant we were in charge of the turkey, all potato dishes, and  veggie.  On Wednesday, the kids and I headed out for deliberate power shopping.  We had a mission and 5 stores to hit in about 5 hours (this included stopping for lunch at California Pizza Kitchen).   We were very successful and the kids did great - I often wonder why when it is the 4 of us we have no major incidents but when it is the whole family all H@@@ breaks loose.

We brined our turkey this year using Whole Foods Apple Brine kit.  It was a very good turkey.

We did have an unexpected visitor this year.  A MOUSE!!!  Luckily for us it did not show itself during the dinner but waited until later in the evening.  It was caught on Saturday - so for three days I was afraid that the mouse would attack me - I know crazy but true.

On Black Friday - we did not shop at the stores but online.  WalMart and Target had some of their specials available online.  So I am done with my cousin's boys and have made a good dent in the kids.  Today I bought for the Hubby! and now I have to figure out what he can get me.  I want snow shoes but since the husband does not want any and I am too afraid to go out in the woods alone we are going to pass on those for now and I have to come up with a list for him. 

We did our family bowling outing.  It was fun ;)  D lost his cool a couple of times he gets very discouraged when something does not come easily.  He also doesn't take instruction well so it makes a tough day for him.

We then headed North to watch my brother in his coaching debut!  He is the head coach for Danbury High Schools girl varsity basketball team.  The team won! The kids had fun visiting their cousins.  C lost a tooth by biting on a Ring Pop!

Saturday was OSU v. MI.  I worked out in the morning and slept during the game.  Hubby was left alone to watch the game - don't know if he liked that or not.

Small Successes - Thanksgiving Edition

It’s important for moms to recognize that all the small successes in our days can add up to one big triumph.

1) Size 8 jeans - 2 jeans sizes in less than 9 months!!!! YEAH ME!

2)  Interim reports for the kids rocked!  not my sucess but YEAH KIDS!!

3)  DH fixed the hole in the ceiling, painted the front porch, and helped me set up for the Turkey Day Celebration.  YEAH HUBBY!!!!

Thanksgiving here we come

We are hosting Thanksgiving this year!  Every 3 years it is our turn to have both sides of the family in town.  The good is that we do not have to drive 2 hours (at least) each way and visit two different meals.  When you do that someones food does not get eaten and then feelings are hurt.  The bad - massive house cleaning, the need to buy new folding chairs, and the stress meltdowns that I will have during these next two days.

This time (event) I am going to try to limit my meltdowns.  If I was one of the kids I would be sent to my room to chill and then come back and finish what I had started.  I will have to keep this thought in my prayers.

Please Lord Not Again

It is starting again -- I do not want to go through this again!  I want it to stop now!  I want to go back in time and determine what they HEY happened to cause this to start again!  I do not want to go to work each and every day with her attitude bringing me down.  Her negativeness causes me to be caustic both here and at home.  Why do I let one person bring me down so......

Dear God please watch over me and help me with my choices during this trying time.  Amen

Small Successes - November 18

It’s important for moms to recognize that all the small successes in our days can add up to one big triumph.

1) I ordered a fresh brined turkey from Whole Foods for Thanksgiving.  We are hosting the festivities at our home for 15 people and we have the tiniest of fridges (no second one it died over the summer) so we needed the fresh turkey.

2) We have started down the ADHD evaluation road.  Had the parents only meeting on the 2nd.  Turned in questionnaires to the teachers.  Schedule the meeting for our son on the 3rd of December.   I am not sure I am happy to be on this road but we need to follow it to get to where he needs to be.

3)  Boys have started basketball!  and I have signed up my daughter for her league.

Bonus 4)  Finally painted our living room - only took 10 months to pick a color and 24 hours to put it up.  We choose Gray Silt from Valspar at Lowe's.  It is much nicer looking than it sounds :)

Now it is your turn........

Frustration

I am just so frustrated.... I wish I could go into the reasons why but it has nothing to do with family & friends.  It is just everything else at this moment. 

I really need to sit down and reflect on they WHY?? I am doing things

November 1

Start of a new month!  My little girl is very excited about November for some reason.  I don't know if she realizes how close Christmas is? or just that the end of the year is near? which is pretty big for a 6 year old.

Halloween 2010



Colleen - Patrick - Daniel

 Photos from Halloween!  Kids had a really good time

It’s important for moms to recognize that all the small successes in our days can add up to one big triumph.

1) Started a new part time job at Ohio State - Accounting Lab Instructor.  So far it is going well.

2) Took Colleen up to Cleveland for her annual Cranio-Facial clinics.  She did great!  The did recommend OT and Speech assessments so we will start down that path.  But considering all that could be wrong that was great news.

3) Kept up with laundry!  did not think I would ever get through it but I did!

Bonus:  (1) Tony & I went to the OSU v. Purdue game and Tony found a photo that you can see us in.  Very exciting... here is the link ohio-state-purdue-panorama

Now it is your turn.....

Small Successes - October 14

It’s important for moms to recognize that all the small successes in our days can add up to one big triumph.

It has been so long since I have done this or least it feels that way:

1)  Decided to put my goals into words for all the world to see.  I think this will make me accountable to myself and my family

2) Finishing up my Screamfree Parenting Online Coaching Package.  I really like the book and this workshop is very helpful

3) Scheduled the bi-annual family portrait for Saturday.  It will be at a State Park.  It will be our first one taken outdoors usually we do studio shorts.  Hopefully it stays dry!

Verbalization

I have read that if you put down in words - verbalize - what you would like in life it will open the doors that you have closed to these gifts.  So here it goes:

1) I would like a new job.  The job that I currently have is a good job, however I don't see us being open this time next year.  So I would like to find something so we do not have to worry about being without my income.
2) We have started a new venture:  Advocare  What Adovcare is an approach to nutrition, lifestyle, and wellness.  I use the supplements daily! and by using the products I have lost over 20 lbs. and a lot of inches.  Clothes that were too tight last year now fit! and are on there way to being loose.  Tony uses it also and nearly all his clothes look like they are about to fall off of him any minute.
3) We would like to move to Glen Arbor MI.  We would like to move there in the next 5 years.  We just love that area - we plan to take the kids up there this winter.

Now I am accountable for all of this since it is out there for the world to see.

I love a give away

Dont' you????  Over at Be Creative  Deena is giving away Bic Mark-It pens.  I know that my kiddos would love these pens.  How about yours?

Tuesdays....

Ever have a day where you just want to curl up and drink hot tea and watch TV or read a book.  Today is that day for me.  It is cold here 50F.  It is supposed to rain.  Work is work so I really do not want to be here.  But what can I do - I have to be here.  I need this paycheck (mind you did not say job) to pay the tuition at school, pay our student loans, and pay for the kids acitivites. 

Here is my top three (I am not ambitious enough to do ten) items:

1) black boots to wear with skirts and pants.  found a great Clarks pair here
2) like the stretch flannel suits at Talbots.  I need to visit the store and check them out
3) cool weather - I was able to put my flannel sheets on the family beds!  Now I need to find my electric blanket.

Why I love my hubby....

Why I love my husband.... is very plain and simple.  He is a great dad!  He is willing to forgo for himself for his children and me!  I wish I was more like him!

Love you!

A need to reconnect

My DH and I need to have a weekend or even an evening alone without kids, family, work, school, etc.   I can not tell you the last time we had a conversation that did not involve the kids in one way or another. 

We have tried and failed to sign up for the Marriage Encounter through church - seems always to be on a weekend we have something going on.

We have to make US a priority - but the question is how?

Small Successes - September 16

It’s important for moms to recognize that all the small successes in our days can add up to one big triumph.



My successes for the week are:

1. Took the kids to my brother's home for a camp out.  It is a 90 minute drive each way but well worth the 3 total hours in the car for their enjoyment.  Sometimes it is about the kids.
2. Visited the Sorrowful Mother Shrine on Sunday.  Was able to celebrate Mass.  It was cool to do Mass in the outdoors.  Will have to take the kids there soon.
3. Called the repairman to fix the dryer.  $200 worth of part - well worth it! 

Time to share your success!!!

Weekend in Review

This weekend was fun and busy!  I like those type of weekend even if they go by way to fast.

On Friday I did not work --- which is always great!  I worked out.  I started this part of the weeks laundry and discovered that our dryer is not drying clothes.  Started towels before I worked out and when I got home 90 minutes later the towels were still wet.  NOT GOOD!!  Tony looked at the dryer and the ignite element was working but no flame.  So we called the repair man and he should be able to fix it today! 

Daniel did good at school - got a green!  That was great.  I know he can do it - he just has to try. Patrick & Colleen has good days. We ended up staying at home for dinner since it is the end of the pay period.  I made Cream Chicken and rice for dinner.  It was good eats!

Saturday we headed North for my nephews birthday party.  I started the day with a migraine.  Thank goodness for Relpax!   About 30 minutes later I was headache/migraine free!  We drove to the birthday party and stopped at a roadside stand and bought the first apples of the season (gala).    The party was fun!  the kids enjoyed themselves.  We enjoyed the party.  Afterwards Tony & I went out to dinner (the kids spend the night).  We had a good time.  Nice to be just us.  We got home and both crashed - very romantic if you ask me.

Sunday - Tony & I went to Mass at The Sorrowful Mother Shrine in Bellevue Ohio.  It was Italian Day and there were a whole bunch of older Italian people with their picnic lunches/breakfasts/dinners enjoying themselves.  It was funny during Mass the volume from the people started to get louder and louder.  It got to a breaking point during communion.  Father had to stop the communion to ask people to be quiet.  It was funny.  At first I thought the noise was from people processing outside the open church but then we realized that it was in the open church and people were just talking to one another.  The Shrine was beautiful.  I want to go back to check it all out.  I wonder if the kids would want to go.  After Mass we picked the kids up from my brothers.  They were not happy to leave but they were all so tired they slept the whole way home.

Now it is time to go back to work...

Small Successes - Sept 9

It’s important for moms to recognize that all the small successes in our days can add up to one big triumph.

My successes for the week are:

1. Visited the pediatrician regarding Daniel (Sept 7 post).  Unfortunately no tests were ordered, no suggestions made, just forms for us to fill out and to decide if we want to see this doctor or another doctor.
2. Did so much laundry but it is all done - how can three kids who wear uniforms daily create more laundry now then during the summer?????
3. Baked my hubby a Red Velvet cake with Cream Cheese frosting for his birthday.   I usually make the kids chocolate cake but this was my first attempt at Red Velvet.

What were your successes????

Start of the school year reflection

The kids started school 2 weeks ago ---  it has been such a bumpy ride! so far.  We have had more downs than ups - or at least that is what I hear from teachers.

Colleen is doing great!  She is loving 1st grade and is having fun with reading and math.  I hope this keeps up.

Daniel is struggling - no academically but behaviorally and socially.  He is doing great with his tests, homework, and class work but the rest is just plain awful.  We have been in school 10 days so far and he has 2 reds, 6 yellows, and 2 greens.  One more red and he is in detention - not good for third grade.  He is working his way to be the classroom trouble maker.  Part of me wonders if something is chemically off and this is causing the behavior, part of me thinks he is being picked on (since some of the things are very nit-picky), part of me thinks that he is trying to push the envelope to be paid attention to, and part of me thinks he is just not challenged at his school and he is done with his work and this is how he acts when he is bored.  We have a doctor's appointment set for Wednesday to see if it is #1.  A big part of me hopes that this is what is going on since then it may be easier to fix than the others.

Patrick is hit or miss --- he is sitting with his best buddy and they talk which gets him trouble.  School work wise is is doing OK - his big problem is his need to do things as quickly as possible and this leads to mistakes.  His writing is also very very sloppy and that is causing negative marks on his papers which otherwise should be positive. 

Each kid is having their struggles but they are also enjoying being back in school.  I think that they enjoy the interacting with friends and learning new things. 

My school year goals are:
1) Daily  pray a Rosary for the kids
2) Get myself up and running so we are not getting to school at the first bell
3) REMEMBER to Praise the good of the day before focusing on the negative

My favorite photo from the first day of school
 August 23, 2010

Small Successes - Sept 2

It’s important for moms to recognize that all the small successes in our days can add up to one big triumph.

1. Took the kids to the Indians game on Sunday.  To do this we needed to go to Mass on Saturday (which is tricky for our family) - but we did it!
2. Scheduled a hair appointment for the end of the month.  The new haircut will not allow me to go 3 months without a haircut.
3. did so much laundry this past week I am shocked I kept up!  Why do the kids want to play outside more since school started then they did all summer
4. Bonus:  Signed the boys up for flag football - we dropped the ball on soccer so I am glad we did this one!

Day 12- Your favorite musical artist’s life story.

My favorite musical artist is Jimmy Buffet.  I just love listening to his music and through his music my brother and I became friends.

Here is his story from his own webiste:

Day 11- Favorite picture ever taken of yourself.

taken on our 10th wedding anniversary
 at the Sleeping Bear Dunes
in Michigan - we were x-country skiing

Small Successes - August 26

It’s important for moms to recognize that all the small successes in our days can add up to one big triumph.

Here are my successes for the week:

1) Kids started school!  YEAH Kids!  I think they are enjoying it but with certain of my children it is hard to tell.

2) We are working on a new routine for the kids.  Trying to get them to be responsible for their space and themselves.  Trying not to be a nag about cleaning up their rooms, etc. but they know the consequences - hopefully Mom and Dad can keep up with this one :)

3) Just finished Rocking the Cradle Catholic and How do you tuck in a  Superhero - both great books and am passing them onto other people that I know who would like these.

Day 10- A dream you had this past week described in detail.

I had a dream that my kids and I were picking tomatoes in my garden and all of a sudden a huge combine was chasing us!  It woke me up and I could not get back to sleep,

Day 09- Five things you want to see change.

I am going to focus this on things that I can change in my own little sphere - outside of that my influence is nil

1) get my kids to clean up their breakfast dishes
2) stop snacking on junkie food after 8PM (my witching hours)
3) lose that last 10 pounds
4) stop my careless spending - to much wants are being bought
5) tell my husband and children I love them and be NICE to them (sometimes I am the meanest to those I love the most)

First Day of School 2010

Today was the first day of school!  Mom & Dad were very excited to have the kids back in school.  The kids were excited to see their school friends.  The day started off well.  We arrived at school a little before 8.  On the first day they line up in the parking lot for prayer, school photo, and march into the classroom. We left them off as they were walking into the building.  I went to work and Tony returned home (he is on 2nd) for the day to do what it is that he does when he is alone.  I know what I would do by myself - but he is less lazy than I.

Here are some photos of the kids.....

picture time

Happy to go to school

resting before the start of the day

colleen & her teacher

dan sad ;(

pat with his friends

Day 08- Someone you think would make a good president

Who do I think would make a good president --- I am not really sure.  I don't think this is a job I would want anyone I know and love to do.  You are hated by more than half of America at some point of your term, you go from youngish looking to an old man in a matter of 4 short years, you can never do anything right!, and you are blamed for everything even if it was not yours to own at the start of the game.

Day 07- Favorite cover of your favorite song

My favorite song is One Particular Harbour and I don't think anyone has covered it.  I am sure there are people who cover JB but I don't know their names.

Day 06- Earliest thing you can remember.

The earliest thing that I remeber is living in a double house that housed us on the top floor and my great-grandmother on the bottom floor.  I was 5 when we moved away - but I remember going to visit grandma when I was tired of my little brother and baby sister.  She would give me coffee (this was 1972) and cookies at her kitchen table.  She passed away when I was a teen but I always loved visiting.

Week in Review

This week has been crazy!  It is our last week of summer vacation and I think everyone is ready for the kids to go back to school.

On Sunday we returned from the annual Aukerman Family weekend away.  This is the last year for that.  After this year it will be a one day afair unless you want to stay.  I like that option.  This year we did the one day because our family vacation crossed day 1.

Monday we headed back to work!  It was nice to get back into a routine for Tony & I but the kids are still so out of whack.   We finally finished summer homework requirements! YEAH US!  that was a struggle of all struggles.  My boys like to read but only if they choose what they read.  They dislike reading from a list.

The rest of the week was spent wrapping up school supply shopping, getting new haircuts, washing uniforms and putting them away (reminds me we need to check under supply), taking the supplies to the classrooms, and me getting back into my work out routine.

Day 05- A thank you letter to someone who has changed your life

Dear Tony,

I am writing you this post to thank you for entering my life.  Prior to meeting you I just assumed I would be a single professional women, that is why I went to get my MBA.  I was turning 30 and at that time just assumed that I would be happy with a career and that was that.  Well you know what they say about assuming anything  :) 

Then I met you that night at Dave Wood's home.  I thought you were nice and would be fun to date but nothing more than that.  Little did I know 2 years later we would be married.  I am thankful to God for sending you as a blessing to me.  I am thankful to you because without you -- who knows where I would be (we know not Marion ;) ).

I love you,

Lynn

Day 04- What you imagine paradise to be like.

To me paradise would be introducing my kids to my granparents that they do not know.  They only know Great-Grandma Rose and she is wonderful!  But I know I would like them to be able to meet my other grandparents at the ages that I remember them being awesome (prior to each becoming rapidly ill and passing on).

Small Successes - August 19

With vacation last week and school next week life has been very hectic at the Altomari household.  Still lets rejoice in what we have accomplished.

1) Finally bought all the school supplies for the kids.  They are now labeled and in their backpacks for drop off on Friday morning.

2) Kids are getting back to school haircuts today!

3) Thankful for my trainer - went back after two weeks off and I can not believe how good it felt to be back.

bonus.... cleared out the study area for the kids so we can start school on the right foot on Monday.

Wordless Wednesday

great wolf lodge - niagara falls canada

Day 03- The five songs you would have with you on a desert island and why

The five songs that I would take are:

1. One Particular Harbour - my all time favorite Jimmy Buffett song
2. Lord of the Dance - I heard this song two Easters ago and it brought me to tears and still does everytime I hear it.  My favorite version is my kids singing it at Mass :)
3. From This Momment - Shania Twain - our first dance
4. Blister in the Sun - Violent Femmes - reminds me of happy college days
5. Dreams - Brani Carlise

Day 02- Something that inspires you.

Right now good recipes are inspiring me to cook for my family.  I love to peruse cookbooks, cooking websites, magazines, and what ever else may hold a meal idea.  I really enjoy to cook and think that this makes my family happy!

Day 1 - Guilty Pleasure

My guilty pleasure is Reality TV especially the shows on Bravo & E!  I just can't get enough of these.  My husband thinks I am nuts but when he is at work on 2nd shift this is what I watch.  Now he is switching to 3rd shift starting in September so I better get all my watching in... :)

30 Days....

Read this on A Rosey Oulook on Life...

The topics are:
Day 01- Guilty pleasure.
Day 02- Something that inspires you.
Day 03- The five songs you would have with you on a desert island and why.
Day 04- What you imagine paradise to be like.
Day 05- A thank you letter to someone who has changed your life.
Day 06- Earliest thing you can remember.
Day 07- Favorite cover of your favorite song.
Day 08- Someone you think would make a good president.
Day 09- Five things you want to see change.
Day 10- A dream you had this past week described in detail.
Day 11- Favorite picture ever taken of yourself.
Day 12- Your favorite musical artist’s life story.
Day 13- A memory that never fails to make you laugh.
Day 14- Best mashup you’ve ever heard.
Day 15- A moment, phrase, or song that has changed your life the most.
Day 16- Something that you want to do within the next five years.
Day 17- What you want to be remembered for.
Day 18- A picture that makes you feel.
Day 19- A passage from a book that has touched you.
Day 20- A band that you immediately liked and the song that made you like them.
Day 21- Your favorite medium of art.
Day 22- Someone you would give your life up for without question.
Day 23- Most awkward first impression you feel you’ve ever given.
Day 24- Something you did as a child that other people remember you for.
Day 25- Something you would do if no one stopped you or if you knew you wouldn’t fail.
Day 26- Your definition of love.
Day 27- Your definition of the meaning of life.
Day 28- A moment you remember being completely happy in and a description of why you believe you were. What is your definition of happiness?
Day 29- What you live for.
Day 30- Ways you believe you have grown over the past thirty days.

FUN!! So with that....off I go to write on Day 1!!

The Falls....

Back Home

There is no place like home......

On Vacation....

see you when we get back....

one of those days

Ever have one of those days where you just want to get back into bed and pull the covers over and start again - like Groundhogs Day.  That is how I feel today.  It just has not gone well for me and it is all my own doing.  1st yelled -- not yelled but bellowed (is that harsher than yell) at my sons because they did not want to do their summer reading.  The oldest wanted to read some College football preview guide and the middle one wanted to read Super Mario Bros Wii User manual.  Don't think these are on the teachers list. So I suggested the books we picked out at the library - that specifically meet the requirements.  They both said NO and walked away with their previous books. 

Well being the CALM person that I am  -- i just let loose with both barrels about how I do not want them reading that crap (yes I used that word) when I tell them to do their summer reading.  If they want to read that crap (2nd time) they could do it on their own time (i.e. prior to bed).  Then I said crap one more time about their choice of reading material just for good measure.  The ended up reading their school work but also crying and very angry at mom.  


I eventually apologized (even thought) I did not want to but I knew that I should and things are fine - - - BUT how I wish I could turn the clock back and that never had happened.

Small Successes - August 5

This week has been a busy one for our family.  Here are a few of our successes.

1) We took the kids to the zoo for the day on Sunday.  We had such a great time.

2) I went to Cleveland to get my hair cut and colored and came home with a totally different look.   As of today I love it.  (hope to have picture soon)

Old Haircut:

New Hair - bad self portrait

3) Finally got the mini-van into the shop for service...oil change, tire rotation, and tune-up.  Good things since we leave for Niagara Falls on Monday (8/9)

Hope you are having a great week!

Wednesady without word

just plain nutty

edited -- by lma

Faith & Family Live! : Baby Name Statistics

This is really neat -- I found out that the year I was born there were 475 other Lynnette's born that year

Faith & Family Live! : Baby Name Statistics

Welcome August

We had a great start to August.  

We headed to the zoo for the day.  As a special bonus we bought tickets to Jungle Jack's Landing, a mini amusement park.  The kids were excited until they went on the first ride which was a spinny in the air type ride.  Tony rode with Colleen and the boys rode together.  Mom got to sit it out since only two people per car.  Colleen loved the ride, the boys would have passed, and Tony go sick.  After that Tony did not ride another ride and I got to ride all the rest of the rides with the kids.  Colleen went on everything.  She is very very Brave (her words).  I think she is daring.  She will definately test us these years to come.

Happy Anniversary

Today is my parents 44th wedding anniversary.  44 years - WOW that is a long time.  I also know that it is a whole lot of work.   I know that it hasn't always been easy for them or for any married couple.  I know this because being married is not easy.  It takes a whole lot of work and my parents are a great example of this hard work.

God Bless you Mom & Dad - and to 44 more years!

Small Successes - July 29

1) made it through last weekend's family reunion

2) visited our old church in Avon Lake and had such a great time.  talk about being at home.

3) scheduled my haircut and partial highlights for next week.  I am so excited.

4) started school supply shopping.  uniforms are already bought at the begining of summer. 

What a weekend

This weekend went a mile a minute and it was all in all a good time.  Initially I was not looking forward to the weekend but sometimes things work out for you in the end.

1. I had a 2nd mammogram on my right side and everything is AOK!!!
2. The kids spent the afternoon with the in-laws. Normally my parents watch the kids when I have things going on in Cleveland but they are in Alaska for a cruise.  The kids had a good time which they always do and my in-laws took us out for dinner - which was nice.
3. Spent the night at my parents empty home the kids loved it because they were able to watch kids shows on Grandpa's huge HDTV.
4. Altomari family reunion was on Saturday - i dread family reunions.  I think this is because when I was young my mom's family had reunions and I was stuck in the middle.  People were either 5 years older of 5 years younger so I stayed with my immediate family.  It turned out to be fine and the kids had fun
5. Saturday night we went to Bar Symon for dinner.  I love Michael Symon and have eaten at Lola's now Lolita's and had such a great meal and time.  The food at Bar Symon was good and they even had a kids menu.
6. We spent the night in Cleveland and survived a power outage
7. We attended Mass at our old church - Holy Spirit in Avon Lake - prior to our move to Marion.  I have read many people say that church feels like home.  I do not feel that at my church in Marion but the minute we walked in Holy Spirit I felt it.  My oldest son felt it also.  It was unbelievable.  I really miss it up there and even though we weren't part the community (Avon Lake) I knew we belonged at the church.

eShatki dress

Small Successes - July 22

Haven't done this in a long time... here it goes

1) since our church did not have VBS this year we are trying the Holy Hero's Summer Faith Adventure. It is our first time doing this and it is going OK could be better.  The kids loved VBS last year but I don't know if it is us but they are fighting it

2) doing my best to stay out of it

3) I am running out of clothes to wear.  Everything is too big!  Got to love that.

Wednesday without words....

Stay Out Of IT!!!!

I have to reminde myself to stay out of it or I will dragged into it

Church & Life

I really love being Catholic.  I love taking the Eucharist and participating in Jesus' gift to us.  Lately though I have these feeling that I am not Catholic enough for a lot of the Catholic Blog-o-sphere.   I read these blogs and listen to the pod-casts and just feel inadequate in my faith.  I listened to  recent Faith & Family podcast talking about books they are reading this summer and I truly enjoy the books that do not require a whole lot of thinking on my part.  I read for pleasure and joy.  I read trashy beach novels, mysteries, and non-fiction.  I also am reading books on my faith.  However, I did not like that these ladies kept referring to the type of books that I like as outside the faith.  I can follow and believe in my faith while reading these books - can't I????

Another sports 'hero' gone

want a horrible evening in my life and my kids lives.  I know that this is silly to be upset about -- this person is just a basketball player, no one who has a direct effect in my life or my kids life.  However, once again a sports 'hero' decides to leave Cleveland.  This is the first one in my young kids lives.  I hope this will be the last.  It hurts - we will move on - but still SUCKS

wanted to post these photos.....

Daniel at about 3 months......

Daniel at nearly 8 years old....

last day of the month

It is nearly July and I am looking forward to what it has in store some good and some OK.

The good is that we have family reunion at the end of the month, 4th of July (I love fireworks), and a bunch of off days from work.

The OK is that Tony is in MO for 2.5 days starting July 12.  The upside of this is that I get to play stay-at-home mom those days.  We are heading to Cleveland on the 13th but outside of that not much planned.  The other OK on the down-side of OK is that I have a workshop at work - not looking forward to those days.  I guess you have to take the ups with the downs.

june is now over

as i say every month - where did the time go.  I know I have time to blog I am just choosing not to.  SAD really.

This month we celebrated my birthday, my mom, Daniel's and Grandma Ts. 

We also celebrated the last day of school, t-ball and baseball!

I love summer!!!

Gifted Testing

Boys are being tested for the gifted program with the local school district.  Hopefully they do well! 

Happy Birthday!!!! To ME!!!

Today is my 43rd birthday and I am at work. The kids told me to take the day off and go bowling with them (they would have to miss school to do this).

This month is full of birthdays - mine, my mom, my grandmom and Daniel!

Baseball and more Baseball

It is a week of baseball in Marion - last week we had rain everyday and they cancelled all the games (3 in total for our family). 

Monday the boys played, yesterday Miss C, today the boys, Thursday Miss C (we may skip this game), and finally Friday the boys.

I love baseball but this seems to be taking forever this year....

Patrick

Daniel

Colleen -

feeling bored

I am very very bored right now.  Today we had ball and the boys team lost.  They are not doing so great this year.  We at dinner at 4PM in order to go to the game.  When we got tot he game Colleen and I hung out at the playground while the boys practiced.  Once the game started - she continued to play while I paced around.  I just could not settle down -- it probably doesn't help that no-one talks to me.  I am sure they think I am stand-offish but I'm not. 

Right now I am sitting at home by myself - kids sleeping - Tony working -- and I am so bored.  I don't even want to read - that is how bored I am.

UPDATE....

School is nearly over - I can not believe it.  Only 9 days of school left and it sounds like fun, fun, fun for the kids.  I know that Patrick & Daniel are done with their grades.  Miss C would love to stay in K forever (or at least with Mrs. Crabtree).  Today they are seeing a movie at the Palace Theatre. 

All three kids have had strep this past week.  None are contagious as of today but both Patrick & Colleen had to miss class because of it.  Daniel could have missed today but wanted to see the movie and play ball tonight. 

Baseball started about 3 weeks ago.  Boys seem to be having fun - Patrick is the only 3rd grader and Daniel is with all of his friends. Colleen is playing t-ball and has a whole lot of fun with it. She likes to talk to her friend Maddie the most (I think).

Colleen is now a Brownie and the boys have advanced in rank to Bear for Daniel and Webelo for Patrick.

We are trying to plan a vacation - not going well.  But we are down to Northern MI, Chicago, Atlanta, or Niagara Falls.  We need to make a decision soon.

It is May

Once again time flew and I did not post anything for nearly one month.

Patrick's birthday went fine.  We are going to buy Patrick a new bike (when is the big question - hopefully prior to Daniel's birthday).  There is one he wants at CostCo so perhaps this weekend.

Daniel celebrated his first communion.  It was a nice day.  The rain held off.

Help is needed....

We are at the age where you have no idea what to buy your children for their birthday.  This is additionally stressed because our kids are blessed with family who buy nearly everything on their birthday wish lists (mind you the list has 15 things on it). 

Our oldest son - mind you our middle son also - have nearly every Wii game they enjoy.  They want the next version but do you really need NHL2K9 and NHL2010?????  I don't think so and neither does my husband. 

So we are two days before the big date with nothing in hand!  nothing on the horizon (perhaps golf clubs or a new 20" bike)  we can not decide and it is causing a riff between the two of us! 

Middle of April

I cannot believe it the middle of April already.  Today (April 13) is my oldest due date - he was born on April 16, 2001 but today was supposed to be his day.  That day was also Good Friday.  Both Tony & I took the day off work in anticipation of this miracle.  We slept in, expecting it to be the last time that would happen for the next 20+ years, and then headed out to Good Friday services at church.  I kept waiting for labor to start and it never did.  We even went out to our favorite park and did the Baton Death March (at least to a 9 month pregnant women) with the dog and still no labor. 

I had a doctor's appointment the previous day so I did not call.  I am sure they would have loved that one.  The next day still no baby.  The next day Easter Sunday still no baby but on the bright side everyone came to us just in case.  That night right before heading to bed, Tony talked to the belly and told this little guy inside that he needed to be born so daddy did not have to go to work.  Well the little guy listened and he was born that Monday.

I always think about this on April 13 - I even tell him that this was his supposed birthday.  With my other two I could not even tell you their due dates.  This is just the difference between the 1st and everyone else.

What a quiet day

So far today is quiet.  I like slow quiet days like this.  I am able to go through things slowly and not be stressed out by what is going on that does not involve me.

Tonight the boys have pinewood derby with the scout troop. I am excited about this for them.  They have so much fun!  Tony did such a good job on those cars for the boys.  They did help out but Tony did all the tools (we are not comfortable with the use of power tools by the two of them).

Small Success - March 25

Wasn't sure I was going to do this but after reading everyone elses I said Yes! I will do this.  Life has not been going great but some things have been going really well and I need to be greatful for these little blessings in life

1. Scheduled my hair cut and color at my favorite salon - 2 hours away on a school day no less.
2. Packed up 23 bags of clothes that have been sitting in bins and sent them off to Goodwill - now onto old sheets and blankets
3. Keeping the house straight!  I dislike cleaning (thank you DH for doing it most of the time) but this past week I have kept up with the mess and it is much simplier than waiting until it overwhelms
4. Order's Lisa's book and can't wait to start it :)

To read about others accomplishments go to Faith & Family website

life is a circle

deleted 3/25

March 23

Where has the time gone!  Wasn't yesterday March 9 and my baby's 6th birthday???

Well since then... Basketball has ended - baseball is starting today - dance is still going on and will until June 12.

Last week we took the kids to dinner and a movie.  We saw Diary of a Wimpy Kid.  Two of the three kids liked it and Miss C did not at all (so she says).  We then went to CPK for dinner - every loves that place.  We eat there anytime we are near one.

Happy Birthday Baby Girl

Your First Day: 

Your 2190th day:

Really hate my job

I really hate my job right now. I am so sick and tired of all the stuff that goes on here.

~ I NEED OUT ~

Wednesday -- without words

Welcome March

I am excited about March for some reason... perhaps it is because I am tired of all the snow, that spring break will be here at the end of the month, that the family birthday season starts this month.

put your pants on!!!!

I have this son who loves to walk around the house without his pants..... WHY may I ask do you do this??

His answer is: I like it.

Odd but true - this boy has never liked to wear pants.

Small Successes

It has been a long long time since I have done this and I just felt a need to do it today...


1) I am sticking to my main/public Lenten resolution very well. Thank you Rachel for that post on your blog. I really needed that.

2) I am sticking to working out and the changed eating habits (not using the word diet) and it is paying off. 12 pounds gone! here is to 5 more.

3) Every week I schedule out all the meals and every week I look at them and then change my mind. This means going out and spending money on food when I have a good meal on the plans. Well the last few weeks I have stuck to the menu planning even when I don't want to cook or it does not look that interesting any more. I am the type of person who hates to pack a lunch because what if I change my mind between 7AM and 1PM.

Please join other mom's celebrating their success -->

Nice to hear - Nice to know

Today I was complimented by someone at work about my wieght loss.  That was very nice to hear!  I said thank you and did not discount the compliment.

Also, this person confirmed my thoughts on someone else and their gossipy self.   That was good to hear and to know!

cycle 9....

we are on cycle 9 of Marquette NFP.  It works out really well for us.  Thank you Fr. Josh

Photo's from the past

I found some cd's with photos on them from when the kids were young.  They are now 8,7 and 5 (who is going to be 6 in 18 days).    I really miss the baby days.  I LOVED the baby days.  I was such a good mom then.  I don't think I am a good mom today.  I have very little patience or tolerance for the mis-behavior at this age.  I think I will have to add some prayers to help me with this problem that I have.

Start of Lent

Today is the start of Lent.  40 days of abstinence, fasting, prayer.  40 days to get ready for the resurrection.  40 days to become closer to God.

I just read a blog post on Testoserhome about a women who gave up to God the act of talking over and over about a negative situation.  That has inspired my Lenten resolutions this year.  This is what I posted on her site in the comments.

• It is amazing how someone or something can take you down and those around you. I work with someone who pushes every single button I have and I end up bringing this frustration home to my husband and kids because I carry it with me. I am going to do my best this Lenten season to let it go - give it to our Lord. I started today with a decade of the rosary in the parking lot before I entered the building and a Hail Mary when this person starts to push. I listen, give a thoughtful answer, walk away and pray.

I am hoping that this will work for the next 40 days.  Pray for me

What a weekend

We had a busy weekend - but what is new...

Saturday - kids had basketball.  They all did good.  Colleen's team I think made one whole basket but it is still fun.  Tony ended up sick for the evening.  We took the kids to Conway's and the 5 of us split the Valentine Day special.  It was more than enough for the 5 of us and they sell it for 2!

Sunday - Scout Sunday!  We were late - but what is new.  It seems when we have to be somewhere we are late ;(  The boys recieved their Light of Christ (inster picture here - but I forgot my camera - again!).  Then they recived their awards from the Pack.  Patrick got his Bear and Daniel is nearly a Wolf!  Then both Tony and I were sick - Happy Valentine Day.  Daniel went to a classmates birthday party.  He had fun!  After a free-for-all Sunday night dinner (was supposed to be homemade pizza's) - we watched some Olympics - kids hit the sack and Tony & I watched Couples Retreat -- - FUNNY MOVIE!!!

Monday - President's Day! The kids and I stayed home.  They went outside for a whole 10 minutes before retreating back into the house.  We played the Wii, Cleaned the house, Did Laundry, Watched the Olympics, and just hung out.

Fun day

Today I had a fun day.  I worked out -- LOVE IT!  I lazed around - LOVED IT!  (sort of an oxymoron).  Then I went to Colleen's class and helped with the Valentine Day party.  The kids are too cute-- and of course I forgot my camera - GO MOM

Annoyed

Today I am a bit troubled a bit annoyed with family.  Here are my rants

I removed my rants because they could get people in hot water (edited 2/11)

That is it.....  oh I forgot I am really annoyed with this......

Snow Day

Today is a snow day in Marion County Ohio.  I have no work - our offices were CLOSED! and the kids have no school - again.

I have no idea what we are going to do but we will have fun!

It is still snowing....

It stopped snowing  on Sunday and Monday only to start at 6:30AM and it hasn't stopped.  I am just amazed on how I live in Ohio - where snow happens every winter and they are never prepared for this white stuff.

The roads are terrible and I don't know if they will get any better.  I just hope the kids go to school at least 2 days this week.

SNOW OUTSIDE OUR FRONT DOOR

1:37 YESTERDAY 2/5

7:20 pm YESTERDAY 2/5

8:20 am TODAY 2/6

what the hell

This is all I have to say today about what is going on with life in general.

My husband is not happy about life right now.  If wish I could change that but know what -- I can't.  I want to fix

I am not happy with my work right now.  The work is fine (when it happens) but the people just get on my last nerve. I want to punch them so hard. 

My middle child is not happy about school right now.  Something is going on and I just do not know what that could be.  He is acting up all the time at school and home but when we try to talk about it he shuts down.

My other two are OK happy.  Their lives are affected by all of us that surround them and we need to remember this otherwise we will be one unhappy group.

I am trying to change things in my sphere but we are all colliding into one another and it is not good

Day 10 weigh in

Today is day 10 of the cleanse -- only 14 more days to go in the jump start kit. 

I was weighed in today and I weighed 159 - looking toward 155 and less!  YEAH for me.

Thank you Power Factory, Jen (my trainer), & my husband (for doing this with me),

January is nearly over

I can't believe that January is nearly over.  It is the 21st already what a fast month.  What a better month than last year (when I fell and had a compression fracture).

Lets go over what has happened so far this month.

• working on a 365 pictures a day project -- hope this goes well
• new semester started for the kids. The 2nd semester was a great semester for them.  All had great grades
• Tony & I celebrated 10 years as married folks!  We headed to Glen Arbor, MI for our anniversary weekend.  Thank you -- Mom & Dad for watching the kids.  We had so much fun up there.  We went cross country skiing, snow shoeing, and just plain hanging around.  Good to re-connect.
• on my second month of training at the Power Factory.  I have having a great time working out - go figure.
• did a 10 day cleanse - part of the working out - and survived.

that is truly about it...  here is a picture of Tony & I cross country skiing

word for 2010

I have been thinking about the word for the year and I have two.

1) Mom - I want to be a better mom to my kids.  I think I am  a pretty good mom but I want to be a great mom - they how I will have to think about

2) Frugal - I need to spend less this year.  I will do my best.

Welcome 2010

It is 2010!!!!  Welcome year - Welcome new oppotunities - Welcome new challanges -- Welcome LOVE -- Welcome!